Today is Thursday October 20, 2011 and want to first post a video of the trading day. I started out a bit rough, with a couple of losses early on as I tried to wake up for the open. I don’t know or think that helped me, but it is what it is.
In the video above, you can see I was a little off in my third series of trades and felt like I was trying a bit to hard. In looking back, I really just needed to relax and not have in my mind making up for yesterdays stop out day.
With that in mind, I did see a big trade brewing and was in it with a market order short, and all was really OK, but it was taking its sweet time before cracking open. I did allow doubts to creep in and take my big trade away from me for what appears to be no good reason and will be the basis for my discussion and follow up in this series of trading psychology issues that traders face on a daily basis.
I did get the second half of that big move, as the market did move exactly to a “trade to target” that was called. Scaling out along the way made it easier to hold to the bottom and is taking the conservative approach to the move. I did send off a training video to members pointing this all out ahead of time and did continue in the call saying that the bottom would be 1193 in the S&P, followed by a very big move up. It all came down exactly as described and is a good feeling to see it played out as such.
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Our thoughts control our actions as it all starts with a thought. The thought of me trying to make up for losses, did lead me to enter early on some trades here today and that is not a good thing. The market will do what the market does and we as traders need to go with that flow. Forcing trades is trying to impose your will on the markets and will not change anything except create a little frustration and some unwanted loses.
It starts with a thought, the thought to get a better price, the thought to get in early so you don’t miss the move, the thought of making up loses, etc.
If the thoughts are not healthy, then it will produce bad fruit. If on the other hand it is healthy, it will do what it is designed to do, produce gains that are with little struggle.
Day trading should not be mentally strenuous event, but it should be something you enjoy. If it becomes a battle every day, it will soon send a message that there is something wrong and that will send unwanted hidden messages from your brain to your soul, (mind, will and your emotions).
So, when trading and looking for what makes up a good trade, you should be relaxed and not uptight. If you are able to breath and relax and then wait, the move will come to you. You don’t have to go hunting for it. If you miss one, that is OK, the next one will be along shortly.
If you miss a trade, don’t fret about it, as that is the most easiest thing to do. To dwell on something you can not change, you end up creating a stack of emotions that will find its way into your next trade. Again, this started from an unwanted emotion, but that emotion gave birth to the feeling by “thought”. When the thought comes to mind, you will only get in trouble when you act on that thought and be entertained by its lure, especially if it is from a bad tree.
How do you judge if the thought is good or bad? Well, you need to have trading discernment which can be cultivated over time, but most of the thoughts you will know right away if it is good or bad.
If the thought is telling you to pull your stop, you know that is a bad thought. If it is saying, re-enter the trade and it is your third attempt on forcing the trade your way, that is a bad thought. If you get a hard lock on market direction and miss the easy trades in the opposite direction, you know those are bad thoughts.
We should all be familiar with our weak spots, so if it comes up in a thought, we will be ready to dispel the bad thought and replace it with the truth. This all may sound a little simplistic, but I will tell you, it is some of the most important things you could learn as a trader.
It is so easy to get into a emotional tailspin and not be able to get out of it. We should never allow ourselves to be or get into that kind of position. We have the power to choose. Don’t forget that. We choose all the time to act or not to act, to move or not to move on a trade. In choosing what and when to act, this too comes from thought and should be healthy thoughts that line up with our method to enter the market.
You don’t get rid of negative trading thoughts by not trying to think them, (because you will only think of them more). You overcome them by choosing the truth and keep choosing the truth, until the negative thoughts are drowned out completely, replace by the trading truth as per your method.
If traders want to improve there trading performance, then the above message will be a very good tonic. It is hard, not easy to do the above and it takes first courage to face these kind of issues, but progress is won by doing the hard things. Taking the easy road is the path the masses take. We need to separate ourselves from that group and rise to the top and fulfill our trading dreams, that to starts with a thought.
Trade well, trade committed ! Vince










